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Anonymous asked: Hi, I have a boyfriend question! My boyfriend thinks its dumb to make rules for our relationship, but everytime we argue he calls me names, shoves me around & yells at me. He also recently drunkly told me two of my friends were hot. Now i feel like i have to compete. I have been with him for a year and a half & i live with him & his parents. I love him to death but he's just so mean & grumpy all the time. Also we're both 19. Any advice?!?
Break up with him immediately.
He doesnt like making “rules” for your relationship and then lashes out because he is a controlling, angry person. You need to get out of this situation. I hate to hear that you live with him but you have to start looking for a safe place to live quietly (without his knowlege) and then get out of there and block him from your life. This is a destructive, toxic relationship and I am speaking from experience when I say that it will not get better. Please leave him and do not think twice about the nasty things he has said to you because he clearly has no standards.